November 11, 2009

"I Salute You on Veterans Day"


In honor of this Veterans Day 2009, Soldiersparent recognizes the women and men who have, and still are bravely serving this country. So by supporting our troops, it should means being there today, tomorrow and forty years from now. It means that our government must make a serious, meaningful, long-term commitment to the women and men it asked to defend our country.
And with this, I say Thank you and God Bless.

November 10, 2009

God Bless You and Your Love Ones.



We salute you!
Our Condolences to all the families of our fallen Comrades.
God Bless You and give you the strength.

November 9, 2009

"American Mother"

Written By: Anna M. Rodriguez

Each time it happens I wonder how she can do it, but I know she has to do it. I don’t think I could, but I do recall feeling that I wanted to do it for my family and for my country. It was on the afternoon of September 11th, the day had brought so much confusion, astonishment, worry, fear, and by the afternoon…anger! I remember commuting my child home from school that day, a thirty minute drive at the time, and feeling the American pride as motorcyclists, waving the American flag, blew past my American-made truck where I had the American flag flying proudly from my antennae for all to see as we drove down the highway. I recall hearing the fright in the voices of all the local radio disc jockeys. They had been up to their usual antics the day before, but now our country was in this numb and wide-eyed confused state of sheer shock!

For many days after the terror I contemplated the idea of joining the air force. I was angry! I was angry that this country I loved so much was no longer the same place it had been. I was angry that my Grandfather, uncles, cousins, and countless other family members and friends already fought for this beautiful country and now we are no longer feeling safe in our own homeland! I was angry that I had a beautiful child that was now a part of a country that could have catastrophic and horrendous attacks occur in our own backyard.

My father had served in the air force when he was first married and I was even born on an air force base. I have all the photos of my baby-hood posing with my dad dressed in his fatigues or dress blues. American pride was something that I was raised on. I was taught at an early age to take my voting privilege very seriously. I do and it is something that I have instilled in my children. Therefore, all of my emotions from September 11th turned into anger that made me want to fight for the love and pride of this country…my home and my family’s home!

I looked into my options and learned that many young Americans had felt the same way I did. After the uneasiness of what was to come and the amount of questions that my child had for me on a daily basis, I decided that I needed to continue to be a good and loyal citizen, but I couldn’t leave my little child. I just couldn’t have done that. I was glued to the television and watched and cried for all of the young Americans who departed from the clutches of their parents’ arms. Many of the fathers knowing all too well, from their service during the Vietnam War, the violence that awaited their children. I saw all the husbands hugging their wives so tightly each of them nearly suffocated; the daddy’s that kissed their little girls gently and gave their sons the nod as if to say, “You’re the man of the house now, son. Take care of your mom and siblings.” Then, I saw all the news footage of the women who left: married women, mothers, and single mothers. They were all leaving this country, the comforts of their homes, and…they were all leaving broken and worried hearts behind. I knew in my heart that I wanted- maybe even needed- to do something to show my appreciation for what these brave heroes are doing for all who reside in the United States. I just didn’t know what I could do.

Years passed and we are still fighting a war, and some might even say we are fighting several wars in many places. It doesn’t really matter to those who have someone “over there”. The fact is they are not here- at home- and they aren’t even in their own homeland. I have had cousins and acquaintances “fight in the war” and we’ve even prayed for them weekly at church. I’ve seen our local soldiers depart and return and I’ve seen the local news reporters outside the homes of those who did not make it back. Still, I didn’t know what my part would be.


My daughter’s junior high years were suddenly upon us and with it a new friend was made when she transferred to my daughter’s school. Laurie* was in a grade younger than my daughter, but they played on the same school basketball team and soon became fast friends! Laurie’s mom would pick her up after practices, dressed in her army fatigues. We soon talked and I learned that Sgt. Jackie*, a single mother, had five children: two high school boys, Laurie, and a seven year old son, and a two year old son. Our girls were similar in age and our babies were the same age. We live near a base therefore, we’ve met many military parents over the years, but we were not as close to any as we became to Sgt. Jackie’s family.

Shortly after the basketball season began we noticed that Sgt. Jackie had not been to games in quite some time. When I asked my daughter about it she informed us that Sgt. Jackie had been deployed to Afghanistan. She is gone for months at a time and the kids are left with friends, the youngest boy stays with his babysitter’s family. The eldest son must carpool the younger kids to school and pick them up from day cares when he is done with his high school basketball practice at the end of the day.

This is where I found the service that my family could do. We, along with another school family, have become Laurie’s second family whenever her mother is deployed. We have a place for her to sleep, stock up on her favorite foods, and my husband even stayed up well past 1:00 a.m. one Sunday night, as we’d do for our own children, to help Laurie finish a school project. We have a bag of Laurie’s clothes in our home and it is not unusual to do a load of laundry and find a sock, t-shirt, or pajamas of Laurie’s in the mix. Sgt. Jackie’s younger children became our own children and we love them as such.
Sgt. Jackie has been deployed many times over the years and can be gone for weeks to months at a time, but with no family in-state, she must rely on help from trusted friends.

Sgt. Jackie’s children are pretty tough and resilient. They are happy and make friends easily. I love the energy that Laurie brings to our home. She jokes and teases with me as I do with her and my other children. She is fully aware that this is her second home and when she is here we can often find her rummaging through the refrigerator at midnight for a snack. I bring her lunch as I do for my own and I deal with school issues on her behalf as her own mother would do if she were here…and not “over there”!

I can’t even begin to fathom the strength that Sgt. Jackie has to have in order to leave her children each time and to allow herself to fully focus on the challenges she faces. I don’t know how her children are able to cope, but they do, and they do it well. I know they miss her immensely, but they know that their mommy is a true American hero! And for that we are all very grateful and blessed!


*names have been changed

November 5, 2009

"Eyes of the World"

Written By:April Pohren,

Take a close look at the world around us. A world that knows hate, anger, greed and the desire for more. Step back from that world. Step into your heart, into your soul. Look within the eyes of the innocent youth, the suffering and shunned. This is our world to nurture and take within the gentle palms of our hands to cradle and care for, not to destroy. Every being is part of this life, this world. Not a small part, but a vital part of a whole.

With that being said, I feel that during this month of Thanksgiving, each of us should take a step back, look within ourselves and strive to be a better person, in at least one way or another. Be thankful for the greatness around us, even through hard times and upset, there are always things to be thankful for, someone to treasure and cherish. Each and every day should be a time to give thanks, to give of yourself. A smile and a kind word are often times worth all the riches in the world. The simple things in life are often the most memorable and life-altering.

Recently I caught the new Brad Paisley video for “Welcome to the Future” and was touched beyond words. Have you ever read, heard or seen something that just left you trembling and overwhelmed? This is what happened as I watched this video. The words in the first paragraph of this is what shot through my mind as I watched the mini movie. Often people get so caught up in their own lives, the hectic comings and goings, the making of more money, looking out for themselves, that the true meaning of life can get lost in the shuffle. There are so many deserving people out there that just need a little help, a friend, someone that is willing to listen. I have always been what you would call naïve, thinking that everyone has goodness within them (okay, I know there is evil out there, but for the most part…). You never know when just a smile will light up someone’s day and bring a spark of happiness. Strangers that you meet, friends, family, cashiers, workers, everyone deserves the time it takes for a small kind word or smile. Everyone can afford these treasures.

I am, personally, thankful for each and every person who has entered my life, is in my life now and for those who are to enter my life in the future. Each and every person makes up the building blocks to our lives and our world, no matter if it’s a pebble or a brick. Without them, things would be different in some small, or perhaps large, way. So always keep in mind that your actions may help to build up someone’s world, or create a chink that may lead to a bit of a crumbling. Yes, I know, let’s add a bit of pressure to our already stressful lives. It is so important that we each realize the powerful impact that we have on one another and to take charge of that and use it for good.

If each of us puts kindness forth, imagine stepping back and looking upon the world. Look within the eyes of those people full of hope, where hope was only an ember about to burn out. Look within the eyes of the innocent who are able to continue to remain innocent, knowing that there is goodness and kindness. Look upon those once shunned, who now know the joy of belonging. Look within your heart, knowing that you have made a difference with your small acts that are huge in scale to another person. Be thankful for every breath you take, it is a priceless gift. Feel the gift of knowing you have shared a bit of yourself to brighten another’s life, as it blankets you in a priceless warmth. Remember to always be thankful, even the things that seem small are huge in worthiness.

Written By:
April Pohren,

"Cafe of Dreams"
http://cafeofdreams.blogspot.com






Brad Paisley video for “Welcome to the Future”

October 27, 2009

October the deadliest month of the war for U.S.

The US military provides the finest training and has the most sophisticated weapon training in the world. All airmen, marines, soldiers, and sailors know that personal sacrifice is inherent in the job of service to their country. Sometimes the sacrifice is exposure to trauma that impacts emotional and/or physical health. Sometimes the sacrifice is life itself. Spouses and families of military personnel also make huge sacrifices and suffer "collateral damage" when their loved one are suffering from the effects of trauma. Know the signs, get the help.

October 25, 2009

Mothers, Wives and Love Ones,


Our soldiers are deployed to countries all over the world. Without the presence of us as a family, and friends, a soldier can become lonely and feel detached from the people and places they once knew so well. It can be both frightening and boring. Many times letters and care packages from home are the very things that keep a soldier’s spirits up. Correspondence from home not only gives the soldier something to look forward to but it also helps him/her to feel connected to their home. More importantly, letters of support and thanks help a soldier to feel valued and appreciated for the sacrifices they make. Many soldiers do not have a lot of family back home to send letters and packages. Writing letters to a soldier is a great opportunity to become active in giving back. Never forget them. Never lose touch with them, support them in all they do. Some of us may not support the war but we must support our love ones at war.
I, a mother of a soldier, understand now why Basic training is mentally and physically challenging. It prepares our soldiers for what is ahead of them. Be proud of them. Thank them, be there for them.

October 20, 2009

Military Career



Every day, many thousands devote themselves to protecting freedoms, maintaining peace, providing relief and supporting policy around the globe.
Basic training provides these soldiers with tools that are needed to succeed.

October 19, 2009

Deeply in LOVE with Each Other



Love Continues to grow stronger for each other, and their Military Careers.

September 4, 2009

Great Quote!

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts." --Winston Churchill

August 25, 2009

SrA. Lopez brings smiles to Iraqi Children







At the break of dawn over the hot Iraqi desert, hundreds of Iraqis line up to visit their relatives at Camp Bucca, which hold thousands of detainees.

Before sunrise, I, Senior Airman Lopez from the 586 ESFS/VISITATION
Expeditionary Security Forces Squadron (ESFS) prepare for the visitors entering the installation.
“I will show them the respect and dignity, so that the family members are able to see how I, a soldier of the U.S. Military treated the detainees.” Says, Senior Airman Lopez
While in the TIF the detainees are fed, clothed, and they are housed in a climate controlled facility.

My duties include processing visitors to see their family members, process daily interactions with the visitors and detainees that contribute to our counterinsurgency efforts and that are making a difference in support of the strategy to build a strong and stable Iraq.

“My interaction with the Iraqi people was an experience that I would not be
able to forget,” says Senior Airmen Natalie Lopez 586th ESFS member deployed from Dyess AFB, Texas.

I feel like that I had accomplished something at the end of each day.
I would like to say that I am one of many soldiers that are showing the Iraqi people a different side of the U.S. military and what we are capable of doing. We are here to help them to rebuild their country, not to harm them.

“I am one of many, United States Security Forces that took the necessary precautions to ensure that the atmosphere was pleasant around the visitation facilities”, says Senior Airmen Lopez

While the Airmen handle the procedures and their responsibilities, we also ensure that visitors are treated with the utmost respect and courtesy during their interactions.
Many of us Airman even took the time to learn Arabic.
“I tried my best with my Arabic to speak to them, and make them feel comfortable in talking to me and making sure they had a good visit,” says Senior Airman Lopez

“It made them feel comfortable; yes, I am wearing an American uniform, and very proud of it, but I can also speak their language enough to get the job done, which is a plus for me.”

As Iraqi families visiting Camp Bucca, they are processed through the visitation
center, and they are moved into waiting rooms before meeting with
their detained relatives. During these waiting periods, the energetic Iraqi
children play soccer with the Airmen or enjoy the playground; many smiles are exchanged among the Airmen and children - a universal gesture. Not only laugh and play with the children, but also we learn from one another’s culture, and learned to respect that. We also exchanged gifts. You may be familiar with the combat bracelet made from 550 cord. I would make a few and the children and I would exchange for one of their Iraqi dollars or a toy they may want to trade. It was all in fun. Sometimes I just handed them out.

“I have volunteer my spare time to freehand a drawing and painted, that of the characters “Mulan”, and “Rosie the Riveter", in the visitation area, which all the children seem to enjoy”. Why these women murals? You may be asking yourself, it’s to show women of strength, hoping by doing this will show them that they can make a difference in their country instead of following,” says Senior Airman Lopez.

Once their waiting period ends the visitors get on a bus which takes them to meet their loved ones.
The detainees are authorized two visits per month. When the two-hour
visitation begins, Iraqi families and the detainees are allowed to interact with
each other for 2 -3 hours.

The visits conclude the same way. Additionally, we do our best
to ensure the detainees are not humiliated in front of their loved ones, nor do
their family members ever see the detainees handcuffed.
The visitation program for detainees and their families allows Airmen
at Camp Bucca to promote goodwill between U.S. military and the Iraqi
people, a step forward in rebuilding Iraq.

“I feel that I am making the Iraqi people understand that the Americans
are here to help them,” says Lopez. “They know the task will eventually be
theirs to rebuild their country”.

I, as many other Airman conducting the detainee family visitation mission at
Camp Bucca with precautionary measures, but we use respect, generosity and smiles as our weapons of choice.

“I am proud to be an American” says Senior Airman Lopez.

July 31, 2009

View My Milblogging.com Profile

July 23, 2009

The MTI Code



The Military Training Instructors Hat that I Wear Is a symbol of Honor, Integrity, And Excellence in Military Deportment. My Job is one of the most important in the Air Force and I will spare no effort to properly prepare young men and women for military Duty.
I am dedicated to the principles of Fairness, Firmness, and Honesty in my dealing with those entrusted to my charge. I am pledged to strive for perfection and reject mediocrity both in my personal behavior and in the performance of those for whom I am responsible.
I am an Air Force Military Training Instructor!!!

May 29, 2009

Military Training Instructor School



Natalie is being fitted for her Smokie Hat.

May 28, 2009

Another Coin

Another Accomplishment Coin to be added to the collection

May 22, 2009

Natalie receive Military coins before the age of 23


great accomplishment

May 15, 2009

Speaking as a mother of a soldier

I have never been to war, but I have sent a child. Twice.

My husband is a Marine, a Vietnam Veteran. My son is a Army Veteran,and My daughter is in the Air Force Security Forces, and Veteran of two Wars, Afghanistan and Iraq at the age of 23.

I received many encouraging words from moms when I mention that watching a child go to war is the most heartbreaking event a parent can endure. I spent my child's growing up years making sure she knew right from wrong and, hopefully, I have taught her life's values.

I guess the feelings are the same for those left behind when it is a wife or a husband that leaves. Yet, I can assure you that the intensity is different. It's a feeling that only mothers can identify with.

We, as parents, smile bravely as our own soldiers leave, and we tell ourselves, "Be strong, we'll find the strength." The truth is we find only distractions from our pain. We go through our daily routines, and we attempt to maintain some serenity, but life has changed for us.

I think about my daughter all day in everything I do. When I eat, I wonder what she is eating. Is she eating a hot meal or a cold meal? I shop to send items my daughter needs.

I put together a care package, and I stand in long lines at the post office to mail it. As I wait my turn, I talk about her to anyone who listens. The pictures are pulled out, and everyone wants a glimpse of one of our heroes. I pray for her safety, and all those soldiers overseas.

I learn to use computers, cell phones, webcams, and other available technology in order to stay in touch with her. I listen for my computer to make that distinct sound (a ring, ring) which announces that my daughter is online. I hear my phone make that special sound my daughter programmed into the cell phone so I would know it is she on the other end.

Standing in line, people around me smile when I explain, "It's my daughter. She's calling from Iraq." Many times, people tell me, "Thank your daughter for me."

Let the soldiers know you care. Don't hesitate to shake the hand of soldiers when you see them walking down the street, taking a subway, or riding a bus. They will feel grateful for that one small gesture -- their sacrifices noticed, their efforts rewarded.

I thank you!! ALL U.S. MILITARY SOLDIERS!!!

"God Bless USA."

April 17, 2009

Military Sisters: Natalie & Jessica


Buddies from Military Security Forces, back in states meet up again.

April 15, 2009

Love Continues Strong


Jeff & Natalie back in the states

April 12, 2009

LatinaLA Newsletter

Everyone read this newsletter: a piece that Natalie wrote was published

http://latinola.publishpal.com/story.php?story=7331

April 9, 2009

Congratulations!

Please congratulate the following SFS Airmen on her win at the group
level and wish her luck at wing level. Keep up the good work.

Amn - SrA Natalie J. Lopez (7 SFS)

Lt Col, USAF
Commander, 7th Security Forces Squadron

March 31, 2009

SFS 1st Quarter Winner

The competition at the NCO for the SFS 1st Quarter Winner was very intense at the Airman Level. Congratulations Amn of the Qtr-SrA Natalie J.Lopez

March 30, 2009

March 23th, 2009 in Washington DC


Natalie was selected from her Wing, to accompany the Colonel and Chief to Washington DC.

March 17, 2009

Friends for Life


What can I say about the women who at first glance appears to be as harmless as a butterfly, but once known you realize that beating inside of her lies one of the biggest, strongest, fearless but yet caring and nourishing heart you will ever encounter. Although the time spent in the presence of one another was brief, the friendship and bond we developed together is and always will be everlasting. I will forever treasure all of the conversations, laughs, and tears and hold them in the warmest place of my heart. Being deployed and away from my loving wife who at the time was with child, was one of the most difficult journeys of my life. Natalie's warming grace strengthened me and helped tame the beast within my very soul. I am so very proud and blessed to have had her as a friend, a comforter, a source of inspiration and above all else, as my sister.
I love you sis!
Your Bro,
Santiago

February 26, 2009

"Latest Update"




Returning from Sniper School and while on leave, Natalie recieves a call from her Senior, stating that she has been acepted for MTI (Military Training Instuctor) located at Lackland Air Force Base in San Antonio, Texas

February 22, 2009

"Fate in Unexpected Places"


Natalie and Jeff enjoys each other company.

February 10, 2009

LOPEZ AT SNIPER SCHOOL

February 7, 2009

Lopez,Christian and Lauderdale in Iraq

Lopez atop her Humvee in Afghanistan

Call to Action : Marine Lance CPL Preach

Ten days ago, on Jan. 24, the Humvee in which Marine Lance Cpl. Kevin Preach (age 21) was a gunner was hit by an improvised explosive device and he was badly injured. He was transported to a medical site in Germany for surgery. He was stabilized and transferred to Brooks Army Medical Center in San Antonio, where he remains in a medically induced coma. “He is very seriously injured,” his mother said from the Texas medical complex. “He’s lost his legs. He’s lost a hand. He’s seriously burned. He’s very burned. It’s not even day-to-day, it’s really hour-to-hour.”
Kevin cannot receive anything inside his sterile room, but his mom will read him cards and letters that are mailed to him. Cards and letters can be sent to: Marine Lance Cpl. Kevin T. Preach, 3857 Roger Brook Drive, Room 4 South, Fort Sam Houston, TX 78234.

Write A Card if you can, Thanks
Let’s show Kevin how much his country honors his service and sacrifice.

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Photos of Female Soldiers



Above: the Witmer sisters in Baghdad.
Two of them served in the same unit.



Above: SPC Sutter on a mounted M249 saw (squad automatic weapon) atop her Humvee. Note the Arabic lettering on her MP sleeve insignia. She also has some medical training.

February 6, 2009

Female Soldiers Face More Danger in Iraq


When a roadside bomb in Iraq exploded on Feb. 9, Army Sgt. Jessica M. Housby became the 21st female soldier killed in action since the war began nearly two years ago.



Spent bullet-casings litter the ground at the site of a bomb blast which killed three patrolling U.S. soldiers and wounded at least eight others in Tarmiyah, 35 kilometers (20 miles) north of Baghdad Friday, Feb. 25, 2005. [AP]

That may seem a small number, given that hostile deaths among U.S. troops recently surpassed 1,000 and is getting closer to 1,500 when fatal accidents and other nonbattle deaths are included.


But by historical measure it is high, and reflects the fundamentally different nature of this war, where even a truck driver such as Housby is a target.


No one is suggesting that women be kept off the modern-day battlefield. But some question whether an Army that is being reconfigured to respond swiftly and more effectively to conflicts such as the one in Iraq is placing some female soldiers in what amounts to the front lines of fighting.


As in past wars, women are barred from units assigned to direct ground combat. That keeps women out of the infantry, armor, artillery, combat engineers and Special Forces. But it does not keep them out of danger.


The nature of combat itself has changed a great deal in Iraq since the toppling of Baghdad in April 2003. Within weeks a violent insurgency took hold. It remains a deadly force.


In Iraq, there is no front line in the traditional sense of armies fighting armies. The front lines are everywhere ¡ª at a site where insurgents lay an ambush, plant a roadside bomb, lob a mortar or detonate an improvised car bomb.


Thus it is not just infantrymen, trained to kill in close combat, who are dying in Iraq, although they are taking the heaviest losses. Soldiers whose roles are categorized as "support," where most of the women in the U.S. military are found, sometimes find themselves in the insurgents' line of fire.


Housby, 23, from Rock Island, Ill., had been in Iraq since October as a member of the Illinois Army National Guard's 1644th Transportation Company. Two other female soldiers of the Illinois Guard have been killed in Iraq ¡ª one by mortar fire, the other by a roadside bomb.


In all, 31 female soldiers have died in the Iraq war, including 10 whose deaths were declared nonhostile, according to the Pentagon.


The most recent death was Spc. Katrina L. Johnson Bell, 32, of Orangeburg, S.C., who died in a vehicle accident in Baqubah on Feb. 16.


In the 1991 Persian Gulf War, five women were killed in action and 10 were nonhostile casualties. In the Vietnam War, women's roles were restricted to administrative, medical and communications work that was mostly performed in more secure rear areas. During that war, only one woman was killed in ground combat. Five others died in military plane and helicopter crashes; two died of medical problems.


Shortly after the Gulf War, the Pentagon opened more military jobs to women, including piloting attack and scout helicopters. The military also spelled out the kinds of assignments that would remain off limits ¡ª any job requiring a female soldier to "physically collocate and remain with" ground combat units that are closed to women.


The distinction then was clear. Now, the Army is redesigning its main fighting forces to make them "modular," or interchangeable.


Some in Congress are asking whether the reconfigured combat brigades have placed women in positions that violate either the letter or the spirit of the policies meant to keep women out of direct combat.


Rep. Duncan Hunter, R-Calif., chairman of the House Armed Services Committee, said recently that his committee is investigating the matter.

David Chu, the undersecretary of defense for personnel and readiness, said his office is "working closely with the Army staff" to review the matter.


Army leaders say they see no reason to doubt that the policy against assigning sex-integrated support companies to ground combat battalions is the correct one.



In letters to the Republican chairmen of the House and Senate Armed Services committees in mid-January, Army Secretary Francis J. Harvey said his staff had reviewed compliance with the relevant laws and policies on women in combat in light of the new configuration of Army brigades.

"My assessment is that in our new brigade combat teams no women will be assigned to a unit below brigade level whose primary mission is direct ground combat," Harvey wrote. "Neither will women be routinely collocated with units assigned a direct combat mission." Therefore there is no policy conflict, he said.

Not everyone agrees.

Elaine Donnelly, president of the Center for Military Readiness, says the Army is misleading Congress by denying that women in support companies are being placed at the front lines of combat. She argues that the presence of female soldiers beside male ground combat troops undermines morale, weakens cohesion and could lead to troublesome "romantic entanglements."

"You set a precedent that would affect all of the combat units, including Special Forces and the Marine Corps. These are radical changes," said Donnelly, a leading opponent of expanding the role of women in the military.

A senior Army spokesman, Brig. Gen. Vincent Brooks, denied that the Army has altered its policy on women in combat. He stressed that female soldiers are making major contributions in Iraq.

"We're not interested in glossing over the reality that women are exposed to the hazards of combat," he said.

February 5, 2009

Female Soldiers Face Danger in Iraq

Associated Press
February 28, 2005

WASHINGTON - When a roadside bomb in Iraq exploded on Feb. 9, Army Sgt. Jessica M. Housby became the 21st female soldier killed in action since the war began nearly two years ago.

That may seem a small number, given that hostile deaths among U.S. troops recently surpassed 1,000 and is getting closer to 1,500 when fatal accidents and other nonbattle deaths are included.

But by historical measure it is high, and reflects the fundamentally different nature of this war, where even a truck driver such as Housby is a target.

No one is suggesting that women be kept off the modern-day battlefield. But some question whether an Army that is being reconfigured to respond swiftly and more effectively to conflicts such as the one in Iraq is placing some female soldiers in what amounts to the front lines of fighting.

As in past wars, women are barred from units assigned to direct ground combat. That keeps women out of the infantry, armor, artillery, combat engineers and Special Forces. But it does not keep them out of danger.

The nature of combat itself has changed a great deal in Iraq since the toppling of Baghdad in April 2003. Within weeks a violent insurgency took hold. It remains a deadly force.

In Iraq, there is no front line in the traditional sense of armies fighting armies. The front lines are everywhere - at a site where insurgents lay an ambush, plant a roadside bomb, lob a mortar or detonate an improvised car bomb.

Thus it is not just infantrymen, trained to kill in close combat, who are dying in Iraq, although they are taking the heaviest losses. Soldiers whose roles are categorized as "support," where most of the women in the U.S. military are found, sometimes find themselves in the insurgents' line of fire.

Housby, 23, from Rock Island, Ill., had been in Iraq since October as a member of the Illinois Army National Guard's 1644th Transportation Company. Two other female soldiers of the Illinois Guard have been killed in Iraq - one by mortar fire, the other by a roadside bomb.

In all, 31 female soldiers have died in the Iraq war, including 10 whose deaths were declared nonhostile, according to the Pentagon.

The most recent death was Spc. Katrina L. Johnson Bell, 32, of Orangeburg, S.C., who died in a vehicle accident in Baqubah on Feb. 16.

In the 1991 Persian Gulf War, five women were killed in action and 10 were nonhostile casualties. In the Vietnam War, women's roles were restricted to administrative, medical and communications work that was mostly performed in more secure rear areas. During that war, only one woman was killed in ground combat. Five others died in military plane and helicopter crashes; two died of medical problems.

Shortly after the Gulf War, the Pentagon opened more military jobs to women, including piloting attack and scout helicopters. The military also spelled out the kinds of assignments that would remain off limits - any job requiring a female soldier to "physically collocate and remain with" ground combat units that are closed to women.

The distinction then was clear. Now, the Army is redesigning its main fighting forces to make them "modular," or interchangeable.

Some in Congress are asking whether the reconfigured combat brigades have placed women in positions that violate either the letter or the spirit of the policies meant to keep women out of direct combat.

Rep. Duncan Hunter, R-Calif., chairman of the House Armed Services Committee, said recently that his committee is investigating the matter. David Chu, the undersecretary of defense for personnel and readiness, said his office is "working closely with the Army staff" to review the matter.

Army leaders say they see no reason to doubt that the policy against assigning sex-integrated support companies to ground combat battalions is the correct one.

In letters to the Republican chairmen of the House and Senate Armed Services committees in mid-January, Army Secretary Francis J. Harvey said his staff had reviewed compliance with the relevant laws and policies on women in combat in light of the new configuration of Army brigades.

"My assessment is that in our new brigade combat teams no women will be assigned to a unit below brigade level whose primary mission is direct ground combat," Harvey wrote. "Neither will women be routinely collocated with units assigned a direct combat mission." Therefore there is no policy conflict, he said.

Not everyone agrees.

Elaine Donnelly, president of the Center for Military Readiness, says the Army is misleading Congress by denying that women in support companies are being placed at the front lines of combat. She argues that the presence of female soldiers beside male ground combat troops undermines morale, weakens cohesion and could lead to troublesome "romantic entanglements."

"You set a precedent that would affect all of the combat units, including Special Forces and the Marine Corps. These are radical changes," said Donnelly, a leading opponent of expanding the role of women in the military.

A senior Army spokesman, Brig. Gen. Vincent Brooks, denied that the Army has altered its policy on women in combat. He stressed that female soldiers are making major contributions in Iraq.

"We're not interested in glossing over the reality that women are exposed to the hazards of combat," he said.

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February 4, 2009

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